Wednesday, January 26, 2011


i fully understand that there is racism in the process, and in Hollywood period,
how else do you explain Waiting To Exhale not getting any nominations at Oscar
time 15 yrs ago?? BUT at the same time just because a black actor doesnt get a
nomination, doesnt mean that it is necessarily because of race, Cedric The
Entertainer WILL NEVER give a performance worthy of an Oscar nod, not IMO
anyways.... What about the other minorities? When was the last time an openly
gay or lesbian actor received an oscar nod? Not sure that Jodie Foster counts,
because some have said she lives in the glass closet

Tuesday, December 14, 2010


i do not have a belief in god, i may have believed him a long time ago but i do not now. i am supposed to believe that moses parted the red sea, and that solomon had 1,000 wives and mistresses?   not to mention some of the people in god's fan club do not act like christians, nor do they set a good example

Wednesday, December 8, 2010


why is it so hard for people to forgive? i have forgiven certain people for the way they treated me when i was coming out but apparently they cant forgive me for the things i said and did

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

my grandma

my grandma
Posted on December 3, 2010 by bjd1
i loved my grandma. she was a great lady. the best advice i have ever received was when i came out to her, she told me that "you just have to live your life"รข€¦.. we did not agree on same sex marriage but she did believe in civil unions, gay adoption and gays in the military. things were not always perfect between us. she once hung up on me over the issue of gay marriage. she said hurtful things to me that i can only attribute to her illness (idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis), she died at home on november 24, 2007

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